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Experts at performing oral sex are rare. Average cock suckers are a dime a dozen. And let's not even mention the amateurs. So, to help remedy that sad state of affairs, here are some suggestions, ideas, and techniques to boost your skills on how to give a blowbob.

To keep this oral sex techniques tip-sheet manageable, I'm excluding "sixty-nine" cock sucking and scenarios with more than two guys, i.e. double blowjobs. And I'm starting at the point when both guys are naked. Don't get me wrong: How to undress a top is important, but for the sake of getting right to the subject at hand - how to give a blowjob - I'll skip that here.

I'm also assuming that the top is cut. Learning to play with a guy's foreskin, docking and other kinds of foreskin play deserve far more than just a side-note or paragraph.

How to Give a Blowjob – Anatomy 101

The penis has two main parts – the shaft and the glans. The glans (also called the crown or head) is the enlarged and cone-shaped end. The area on the underside of the penis next to the head, where the foreskin is (or was) attached, is called the frenum (or frenulum). The adjacent \/- or /\-slit (depending on which way you look at it) is at one end of the raphe, which is the visible ridge that runs on the underside of the penis, from the meatus (pisshole, opening of the urethra) across the scrotum to the perineum (the area between scrotum and anus). There, now you know what's what and what's where.

How to Give a Blowjob - Positions

The top – let's call him Butch – usually determines the initial set-up for the blowjob. The cock sucker – Randy – just follows Butch's lead.

. If Butch stands, Randy sits or kneels.
. If Butch stands near the bed, Randy lies across it on his stomach, with his head at the edge.
. If Butch sits on the edge of the bed, Randy kneels between Butch's legs.
. If Butch lies on his back. Randy kneels between Butch's legs (or straddles one of them).
. Alternately, if Butch lies on his back, Randy kneels over Butch's face, placing his hands beside or on Butch's thighs. (In this position, Butch can play with Randy's balls or ass. This might later become a sixty-niner, but that's Butch's decision.)

There are other oral sex positions, plus many variations to the blowjob styles listed above, but your ability to suck cock in these five should come first. If you can't grasp these basic oral sex techniques, you won't get very far. Masters in the art of sucking cock often explore a whole repertoire during the course of a blowjob, shifting easily from one position to another. After all, bottoms are in charge, although tops like to think otherwise. Butch's oral sex preferences count of course, but expert cock suckers who really know how to give a blowjob are amazingly good at coaxing tops into new adventures.

One time I had my cock sucked by a genius who got me on my hands and knees. Then he positioned himself behind me and alternated between sucking my cock and giving me a major rimming and tongue-fuck. By the time I blew my load, I was gloriously wasted.

How to Give a Blowjob - Getting Started

One strategy I suggest is that, at the beginning, Randy should ignore Butch's cock. That's right start the oral sex with no oral sex. There's lots of time for that later. Randy's first moves should send Butch the message that he's in the hands of a pro. He's going to get the blowjob of his life.

Some tops like having their feet licked or toes sucked. Others may enjoy you giving their crotches a tongue-bath. Rimming is also an option, although I usually wait to do that until the action heats up. The possibilities are limited only by your imagination and his willingness.

But you don't want him "just willing" – you want to ramp up this man's libido. To do that, you need to discover his vulnerabilities – the chinks in his armour. Your job is to use any and every sexual ploy on Butch, so that he is practically begging you to end the torment. I remember sucking and licking one top's armpits until pre-cum was dripping from his pisshole – and his hips were bouncing off the mattress. Only then did I indulge him, and move to his dick. The more you turn Butch on, the more you will be, too. So, focus on arousing him.

If his cock is flaccid when you begin, you might wrap your lips around all of it, just to give him a taste of what's to come. You can also lick it and suck it for brief moments while it's getting hard. If you know, or suspect, that his erection is going to be in the major leagues, this can be a useful way of adjusting. (It's very gratifying to feel a cock getting hard in your mouth – a testament to your skills.)

As part of the prelims, Randy should lick and/or massage the perineum (the ridge that runs from Butch's testicles to his asshole). Many men find that very erotic.

How to Give a Blowjob - Speaking and Making Sounds

Moans, groans, sighs, etc., are a natural part of good oral sex technique, but don't fake them. Phony responses are obvious, and they're a total turn-off. Anything that annoys a top can end what might have been a hot cock sucking session. Now, regarding talking: Some tops like silence; other's like compliments and flattery; and still others like fantasies – Randy tells Butch what he'd like to do, or what he thinks Butch would like, or what he wants Butch to do to him. Of course, if Randy is a Chatty Cathy, Butch might stuff something down Randy's throat – and keep it there.

How to Give a Blowjob – Two Cautionary Notes

Randy should "explore" Butch's testicles. This not only gives pleasure and continues to arouse Butch, but it allows you to see how sensitive he is. Some tops love it when their balls are being licked and sucked. But how hard do you suck? Does Butch like them being stretched? How much? And for how long? Randy needs to discover, early, as much as he can. Nothing is worse that doing something annoying or painful just before orgasm. That can end the encounter faster than a cold shower.

The same thing goes for Butch's asshole. Some tops go ballistic when a finger massages their rim, or probes inside, just before they cum. Others are offended. Don't assume anything. Getting rid of the guesswork early is an important lesson. Adding a bit of rimming to your oral sex technique will help you figure out what really turns this man on.

How to Give a Blowjob - Escalating the Blowjob Action

Okay, let's assume that Butch really likes Randy's oral sex technique, he may say so, but his moans, hip movements, and hardening erection are all the evidence Randy needs. At this point, there are a variety of strategies available. You should switch among them, but don't rush the process. And you can always repeat the tactics mentioned in "Starting the Blowjob" (above) during this stage.

Licking the raphe (the ridge on the underside of the penis) in long, wet strokes, from his balls to the crown, is a great way to start. Begin gently, then build intensity and pace. Vary that by using the tip of your tongue on the frenum. That drives some guys crazy, and you can see the glans swell and pulse. The rim of the crown also invites attention, and you can use your thumb to brush it, especially next to the frenum. Scrub it with your tongue, and if it's flared enough, you might even chew it.

Caution: I said "chew," but be warned: Except for the occasional moments, keep your teeth off (or at least minimize contact with) Butch's cock. Once in a rare while, a top wants "rough" oral sex, but my advice is to wait for him to tell you, "Harder!"

If you can swallow all of his erection, that makes things easier. You can then devote all your attention to arousing him, varying your oral sex techniques at will. But if you've got a whopper of a cock to suck, take it in stages. Take half, for example, and get comfortable with that. Then gradually let the head farther in. To avoid or minimize gagging, you have to let your throat muscles adjust. Relax and breathe through your nose. Every so often, you can allow the cock head to push deeper, stretching your throat muscles. When you back off, work your tongue and lips on the shaft and head. And speaking of stretching, try holding his cock in both your hands and using your thumbs on the crown to open his pisshole – and then tease the entrance with the tip of your tongue.

From time to time, vary the pace and intensity of your cock sucking. Avoid maintaining a steady rhythm for too long. To see the effect of this, try a simple experiment. Place the tip of an index finger in the palm of your other hand. Brush lightly. Now, brush in the other direction. Increase the pressure. Now, decrease the pressure and trace small circles, then larger ones. Feel what happens? The nerve cells become alert, then responses become dull. Then they reawaken. Anyone can bob up and down on a cock, but the key in how to give a blowjob, a really good blowjob, is to keep the recipient guessing.

The more you keep those nerve cells awake, the more blood flows into the erection, building the pressure, which acts on the prostate, until the "trigger" point is reached. And that trigger point is often preceded by the retraction of the top's testicles. If you're fondling them when this happens, you'll know.

At this stage in the blowjob, intensify your sucking (tighten your lips) and use longer and longer strokes. Butch may even take over by thrusting his hips, even holding your head while he face-fucks you. And when you feel the crown of his cock suddenly swell, ejaculation is only seconds away.

How to Give a Blowjob – the Climax

When Butch cums (shoots his load), he may want/prefer to (a) bury the head of his erection in the back of your throat; (b) jack-off himself, and spurt cum over your face and/or body; or (c) let you take charge. Also, he may or may not want you to hold his hips or butt-cheeks. Don't worry, he'll let you know fast enough.

If he has a big cock, option (a) may be a problem. My best advice is to take a deep breath just before he comes, swallow as much of his cock as you can, and hold it there for as long as possible. Think of swimming under water, except that you also have his load of sperm to deal with. When you have to come up for air, swallow his cum and plunge your mouth back down his erection. Some tops love to let it soak there.

If Butch opts for (b), open your mouth so he can squirt his cum there, too, if he wants – and enjoy the adventure.

Option (c) is rare, in my experience. But if a top lets me take charge, I vastly prefer to keep his erection in my mouth and throat during (and after) his orgasm. If he shoots a big load, I let it back up into my mouth, so I can taste it. (Your taste buds are in the front of your mouth and the tip of your tongue.) Later, I swallow it or use it as lube when I jack-off.

After he cums, I usually avoid sucking or any other oral stimulation. Let him enjoy a peaceful recovery. If he wants to initiate anything further, he'll let you know.

And there - how to give a blowjob - all you have to do now is practice, practice, practice!